The words below spoke loudly to me earlier in life when often my fear and inhibition would get in the way of being my true self. For Christmas years ago, Dina spent hours overlaying these words on top of a photo of Lincoln walking confidently. She Had it printed and framed and it lives in our house today. I cried when the gift was opened. It might have been the most amazing gift anyone has given me.

I cried for Lincoln and Coleman who I hope will be this fearless and open to the world.

I cried because I felt seen and understood by Dina.

I cried because she was giving me permission to be my true self and let my light shine.

I cried because she loves me in spite of, and perhaps because of, my imperfections.

I cried because I knew how lucky I am to have the love of these three wonderful people.

Thank you, Dina. What a gift!

Our Deepest Fear
By Marianne Williamson

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. 
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. 
It is our light, not our darkness
That most frightens us.

We ask ourselves
Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be? 
You are a child of God.

Your playing small 
Does not serve the world. 
There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking 
So that other people won’t feel insecure around you.

We are all meant to shine, 
As children do. 
We were born to make manifest 
The glory of God that is within us.

It’s not just in some of us; 
It’s in everyone.

And as we let our own light shine, 
We unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. 
As we’re liberated from our own fear, 
Our presence automatically liberates others.

This quote by Marianne Williamson was mistakenly credited to Nelson Mandella, who did reference it in one of his speeches.